How is this a valid argument against black women dating white men?

When black women talk about their frustration with how black men treat them and may choose to date white men...





I have heard the argument that black women will face racism from white men's family if they choose to date them.





This still does not negate the fact that black men are treating black women poorly and it's not defending against how white men will treat them, but rather how society will view bw/wm relationship.





How is this a valid defense?|||It isn't a valid argument at all. crappy men come in all shades..so do racist families. u dont have to deal with one just to get the opposite of the other (if that's understandable lol). and ur last bit of info lost me too..seems redundant (or some other word that describes unnecessary info).|||Your questions kind of confusing BUT and i know some people are going to get angry at this but yes i feel that majority of black men do treat black women like s***. It doesn't necessarily mean that's the reason they want to date outside of their race though it could be they were attracted to them all along but wanted to give the black men a chance first.|||My friend is about to marry a white guy next month....his mother LOVES her and his father has her call him dad. And a blogger I like to read about has a asian husband and she is black and his parents are annoying them about how they want grandkids soon!!! But I careless about anyones feelings. Just the person am dating.|||What? What you are asking is so unclear. I see about three separate statements to evaluate and there may be more. Please add details so we don't have to try to figure out what you want commented on in this debate.





Edit: See what you've done by asking this? You've let the scott out again! *damn!*|||No it isn't a valid defense. People will be racist no matter what you do, you just have to show them you don't care about their opinion and you will date who you want to date|||one of my friends is married to a white guy. if the guy is laid back is family probably is too. a woman, any woman , has those instincts if a relationship will work out.|||Good job for those black women.


Majority of black men are no good and tap booty on Fridays and on Mondays they go and drink liquor out of a 40 oz in a paper bag.|||I don't get it. If someone likes or loves a person, sometimes it doesn't matter how they family think. The last part has me really confused.|||Why can't we just love who we want to love without race getting in the way?





It shouldn't matter. That's how I see it.|||why do you care mann!|||Not all Black guys are like that. But, many Black guys have been beat by their mommas their whole life. Many of their aunts have molested them like in that movie about the little Black boy that joined the Navy and found out who his parents were. Denzel Wahington was in it. I can't remember the name. It was a great movie though.|||thats black womens problem! black people should stick with their own race...I think it's just their excuse so they can be with a white person and fit into our culture!|||Thats unusual since most of us wouldnt date Black girls








I wouldnt and I dont know anybody who would date a Black girl so those cases are very rare.
























































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